Types Of Anger
If you say that you have never been angry in your whole life
then either you are blatantly lying or you don’t know anything about
anger. Anger is a generic emotion that is experienced by one and all.
However, there are different degrees and different kinds of anger. Anger
can be destructive and can lead to various problems. Getting angry is
all right but the release of the anger should always be in a healthy
way. The channelization of anger towards the right way is important for a
proper growth. Knowing different types of anger will help you recognize
your type and you would be able to handle it well. Read on to know the
different kinds of anger in the following pointers.
Different Kinds Of Anger
Behavioral Anger
Behavioral anger describes a type of anger, which consists of an
aggressive action often physical, against someone or something, which
triggered the anger. This type of anger generally causes a physical
attack on the subject of the anger. The outcome of the anger is almost
always a physical abuse or assault.
Passive Anger
People who have this type of anger, use sarcasm and cynicism as
their weapon. They may be silent but it may be just to avoid the open
confrontation. People with passive anger generally are good at hiding
feelings but they are prone to sulking and generally express their anger
this way. The people using passive anger tend to keep away from
conflicts with situations or people.
Verbal Anger
It signifies the same that is anger expressed through words and not
actions. People who generally use this kind of anger tend to use words
as their armaments. They criticize, insult, pass judgment on, and abuse
to put people down and to complain.
Self-Inflicted Anger
Self-inflicting anger is a way to take out the anger by punishing
oneself. People who use this type of anger often punish themselves for
what they themselves or somebody else has done to them. The person, who
uses this kind of anger often starve, cut oneself or even over eats to
punish themselves.
Volatile Anger
This form of anger can be rightly compared to the volcano as it
crops up in varying degrees. One moment a person can be calm and the
next moment he/she can be in full rage. It just comes and goes; it can
either appear out of nowhere or can explode or even go unnoticed.
Volatile anger is often the result of bottled up emotions, which could
otherwise be expressed in a healthy way.
Chronic Anger
Chronic anger is a type of anger, which is often a prolonged anger,
and mostly without any reasons. People exhibiting this type of anger
get used to getting angry and it becomes a habit. People with chronic
anger generally get angry at something on which nearly no other person
would get upset.
Judgmental Anger
The person exhibiting this kind of anger often puts other people
down and makes them feel unsure about themselves, about their abilities
and make them feel worthless. This type of anger is very much related to
verbal anger and the person gets satisfaction by putting other people
down.
Overwhelmed Anger
Overwhelming anger is used as a method to relieve stress by
shouting and fighting. The people who use this method exhibit this anger
when they are not able to take situations and things that are happening
around them head on and this type of anger is a kind of a punch bag for
them.
Retaliatory Anger
Retaliatory anger is the result of often a direct reaction to
someone else lashing out at the person. It is one of the most common
types of anger.
Paranoid Anger
This type of anger is the direct result of either the insecurity
feeling or jealousy. It may happen because a person feels that other
people are given something which is rightfully his or hers. It may also
be because of feeling intimidated by others.
Deliberate Anger
This anger arises out of frustration or in order to gain power over
the situation or sometimes over a person. This type of anger often
occurs when something does not turn out the way the person wanted. It
may also crop up when a plan doesn’t go accordingly.
Constructive Anger
This type of anger is a constructive approach towards something and is often a response towards injustices.
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